On Changing Careers Again

On Changing Careers Again
by Tim Gatewood

When I was in 8th or 9th grade, I took Junior ROTC instead of Physical Education. As we lived in Mobile, Alabama, then, with its large U.S. Navy presence, it was Naval JROTC.

What I remember from that experience is joining the drill team to (unsuccessfully) impress a girl, marching in one of the Mardi Gras parades (behind a group mounted on horses), visiting the moth-balled U.S. Navy ships in the Mobile Bay, and studying textbooks that were too old to be useful to any active duty service member.

Emotionally, what I came away with was respect for anyone willing to subject themselves to military service, along with a conviction that it was NOT something I ever wanted to do.

There are days when I wonder if a major purpose and function of JROTC is to weed out those who would be a bad fit for the military. There are other days when I wonder if deciding to stay out of the military was the best or worst decision I’ve ever made.

From the vantage point of today, looking back over the many years since then, it certainly feels like taking that class and making the decisions that followed from it were a major turning point of my life, one of those moments when I turned from that path onto this path.

All this came back to me recently as I considered what to do about my future with the disruption that technology is bringing to my career of the past 15+ years. I have come to believe that what I have been doing is unlikely to sustain me into retirement years, so I’m going to have to change careers again.

That means it is time to review where I’ve been and what I’ve done and learned in order to plan where I go next. If I simplify things a bit, my work life can grouped into five phases so far, although only some of those phases would qualify as a career.

School Years

My first “job” was making potholders and selling them door-to-door when I was in 7th grade. That taught me the importance of planning what I was going to say before the prospective customer opened their door, as well as the difference between income and profit. At the time, I did not think of it as being “self-employed” — it was just a way to make money that did not involve doing chores at home.

Other jobs while I was in school were the standard entry-level retail, food service, and such. Those taught me to be on time and to keep my own records of what I did.

The summer between high school and college, I had a job as a night watchman and janitor at a country club. Seeing the sun come up every morning over the kudzu-covered hills at the distant edge of the golf course and the birds rising up from their slumbers was the best thing about that job.

While in college, I worked in a law office for an interim term project. I was considering a career as a lawyer when I started there. By the end of that project, I had allowed myself to be convinced by an associate attorney at the firm that such would be a bad choice for me. From this, I learned that sometimes people may tell you the truth but do so for motives that are selfish (such as discouraging competiton) or to test your resolve. I also learned that the law is much more fluid than most people believe and that there are several types of laws and rules and authorities that interact in various ways.

I drove an ice cream truck for one entire summer and part of another while I was in college. This reinforced the lessons about the difference between income and profit, as well as teaching me that changes in the market place (grocery stores had started carrying many of the same products at a lower price than I could offer) can undercut your ability to make a living. I learned that a contractor is not independent if they are getting their equipment and supplies from one source, especially if that source dictates where and when they will work.

Manager Trainee

After college, I had a pair of jobs as a manager trainee. The main thing the first manager trainee job taught me was to think about how other people may put their fears or needs above justice and that anything you say has consequences, and not always the ones you expected.

From the second manager trainee job, I learned that there are types of wages that should be illegal, that no one can work from 7 am to 9pm six days a week and have still have any kind of life, and that far too many people get caught by their own short-term thinking into traps where they harm themselves. This job included collections and repo as part of the duties, and that led straight into my next phase of work.

Collections and Repo

As stressful as collections can be, there were some good days doing this type of work. The repo jobs reminded me that I enjoyed being out and about during the day time. Both repo and collections jobs taught me that I could use my talking skills to get positive results if I was persistent. It also showed me that many people react with abusive language or violence if you increase the stress that they are already under. I moved from Birmingham (Alabama) to Memphis (Tennessee) when I stopped doing repo and shifted to collections only.

Administrative Assistant and Legal Secretary

After several years of collection work, I was burned out on that, so I needed some experience in other fields and I signed up with a few temp agencies, where I mostly focused on administrative assistant and clerical work. I developed a much deeper computer literacy and learned many different software programs while doing temp work.

I did several types of clerical or administrative assistant work besides the ones offered by temp agencies. That led to my first job as a legal secretary, which taught me even more about how the legal profession operates. While at that first legal secretary job, I learned how to create websites.

From these clerical and legal secretary jobs, I learned that I am good at matching people up with resources, that I can create or improve systems for tracking the processes involved to get a task done, and that knowing how my work fits into the mission of the firm greatly boosts my satisfaction with that job. Also, having a boss who appreciates what I am doing, who corrects my mistakes in private, is willing to invest in useful training, and who does not give me impossibly-contradictory instructions is very important.

I continued this type of work until 2003, when I returned to my roots and became self-employed again.


From 2003 to today, I have been self-employed, starting and running one primary and, sometimes, one or two secondary small businesses. I am an independent contractor, small business owner, freelancer, entrepreneur — which all amount to the same thing, just different ways of looking at it.

My primary business has been Notary Memphis, my mobile notary service through which I offer traveling notary services to the general public and notary signing agent services to firms in the mortgage lending and other industries. Notary Memphis is currently in its 16th year of operations, as I started it on a part-time basis while still full-time employed.

From 2007 to 2014, my secondary business was Midsouth Field Services, my field inspection service for commercial properties and merchant site inspections.

From 2015 to the current time, I have been a freelance writer, contributing paid articles to the American Association of Notaries and working on my first two books.

Being self-employed has caused me to update my skills and to apply what I had learned in previous work, and it has expanded what I knew about business, especially marketing, research, bookkeeping, planning, and other areas.

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That brings me up to the current day. Many of my previous employers are gone now & those who remain are unlikely to remember me due to the passage of time. What abides are my own records, my memory, and what skills and knowledge I learned along the way about work, business, the world, and myself.

As I update my resume to include what is most relevant to current jobs, I am reminded of how much I also learned from volunteer work, hobbies, or involvements in community groups — and from the 23 years that I was blessed to share with my late wife.

Tim Gatewood

Tim Gatewood

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Free Speech Has Consequences

In my experience, bigots and other intolerant people will generally self-identify by their own words and clothing choices.

If you show up in public wearing a Nazi swastika or other Nazi or fascist symbol and it’s not for a WW2 re-enactment event, you have basically labeled yourself a neo-Nazi.

If you speak out in disgust about “the gays” or “the blacks” or any other term that you know would be offensive if they heard you use it, you have already self-identified as a bigot.

No one has to assume that about you — you proclaimed it yourself.

And if you combine religious doctrine statements with your bigotry, you have made it obvious that you are a religious extremist.

You can believe whatever you want, but speech is supposed to have consequences; it’s why we speak. We want to be heard so that others will act or react, start doing something we want or stop doing something we abhor. We speak as a form of action. Actions always have consequences.

Saying anything you want without consequences is not a right you or I have. In fact, you always pay for your “free speech” by the consequences unless you’re totally alone and unheard when you speak.

Freedom of speech is a matter of the government not imposing consequences on your speech. It is NOT a matter of people who are not government tolerating your intolerance.

We need to stop dancing around this idea of tolerance for the intolerant.

Decent people don’t avoid deliberately offensive statements out of some misguided devotion to Political Correctness.

We do so because it shows respect to the other members of the community and that show of respect is the glue that holds a society together. (It may only be a show, but it’s still necessary.)

If you believe that not being a deliberate jerk toward others makes you a cuck or infringes your free speech, you’re part of the problem.

Neo-Nazis and bigots who are spouting their hate-filled rhetoric should be shut down at the earliest possible moment because that speech incites harm to others.

Allowing it to go unchecked means those who harbor such thoughts will think it’s okay to be a bigot or a neo-Nazi. And the next thing after that is physical harm to the people they see as less valuable than themselves.

Also see these thoughts on the matter from the sometimes-wise Popehat: https://www.popehat.com/2013/09/10/speech-and-consequences/

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